Hosting a supper club or dinner party series is one of the best ways to create delicious traditions with friends and family. Whether you're preparing a monthly potluck, hosting a summer barbecue series, or just meeting up at your favorite dinner spot weekly, there are few joys in life better than sharing food.
In a world where everybody seems plugged in and busy with various responsibilities, slowing down and taking some time to disconnect and share a mouthwatering meal can be both fun and a well-deserved break for all involved.
At Braid, we want to help you become the host-with-the-most by giving you some tips on throwing the perfect dinner party or supper club. Plus, we'll share some advice for budgeting and collecting funds for your future soirees.
Contents:
- The history of the supper club
- 5 easy tips for hosting a supper club
- How to gather contributions from attendees
The history of the supper club
Of course, the concept of a dinner party series isn't new. People have been gathering at supper clubs since the beginning of the 18th century! They've long operated in the US and UK as social gatherings focused around regular meetups over shared meals.
Similarly, and often used interchangeably, the supper club originated as a term used to describe a brick-and-mortar restaurant that functioned as an (often exclusive) club. Supper clubs were incredibly fashionable in the prohibition era as locations where everybody could eat, drink, and talk until the early hours of the morning.
Over the years, supper clubs have also described "underground" eateries or social dining events hosted out of someone's home. However, today, the idea of hosting supper clubs is about gathering together with loved ones to bond over food regularly.
5 easy tips for hosting a supper club
1. Keep the guest list small
The "more the merrier" approach might not be the best for supper clubs. It's best to keep parties rather intimate so that it's easier to feed everyone. Plus, it keeps noise levels down and facilitates better conversation since it's easier for all attendees to talk to each other. Keeping guest lists on the smaller side allows for occasional "special guests," like a new significant other or visiting friend from out of town, without overcrowding.
2. Set a host rotation
The host should be responsible for supplying their home and the main courses and assigning tasks to other attendees. Consider setting host rotations, so everyone balances out the weight of hosting. This way, everyone in the group gets a turn to lead the meal, and no one feels overburdened. Plan your supper club dates to give everybody ample time to get ready and save the events in their calendars to simplify the process.
3. Stick to a schedule
Consistency is key when it comes to hosting dinners with your group. It's best to decide on a set day and time, like Sundays, when you can keep the event going. As you plan the frequency of your meals, ensure you keep the process realistic for attendees. For example, while dining weekly may sound doable upfront, it may also result in people canceling last minute.
4. Choose simple decorations and table settings
Although a visually-stunning table is #hostgoals, it's best to worry less about arranging a post-worthy tablescape and focus more on how you can serve up a delicious meal and just enjoy time with your guests.
When setting the table, go with the essentials—plates, cutlery, glasses, serving dishes, and the link. The basics don't have to be boring, either—you could opt for a seasonal bouquet from the grocery store for the centerpiece and choose cloth napkins instead of paper ones. You could even break out your vintage wine classes or blend in a few of your favorite unique pieces collecting dust in the cupboard. Candles, flower petals, and colorful dishes can help set the mood.
5. Spice up the menu
Since supper clubs are frequent affairs, let the host be in charge of curating the menu. This is a chance to let creativity fly—you could choose to host themed meals (like Spanish tapas, make-your-own pizza night, Italian dishes, or an Ethiopian extravaganza) or break out the grill and serve up your favorite barbecue classics. You could even make meals from your weekly meal delivery subscription or try to work your way through a cookbook as the series goes on. Whether you're hosting or attending, be aware of everyone in the group's dietary restrictions in advance so everyone can enjoy the meal safely.
Use a money pool to gather contributions from attendees
One of the most significant obstacles to hosting a dinner party or a supper club is figuring out how to pay for it all. After all, the food, beverages, decorations, and chair rentals really add up.
Relieve financial burden and try Braid Money Pools. Here's how it works for supper clubs:
- Customize and share your link: Create a pool and share the link with supper club attendees
- Collect contributions: Anyone with a debit card can contribute to the party expenses straight from their phone
- Spend from the pool: Pay for food, drinks, decorations, venue rentals, entertainment, and more with the pool’s dedicated debit card
Braid is free to use, so you get to keep 100% of the money you collect for food, drinks, decorations, flowers, and any other items you may need to host your meal.
Your supper club attendees don't even need to download Braid to contribute—anyone with a debit or credit card can send money to the pool through the Pool Link. Plus, you'll see notifications when someone contributes money to the supper club pool.
All of the funds collected from your attendees stay in the pool until you spend it, so there's no need to transfer funds to a separate bank account.
You can also request a physical debit card for in-store purchases, like spending the contributions at Whole Foods or your favorite wine shop.
Want to learn more? Check out our step-by-step guide to learn how to set up your supper club money pool.
Relax and have fun
The most important thing to remember is: have fun! Even if your lasagna ends up a little burned or somebody shows up a little late, hiccups are bound to happen. It's going to be okay!
Just remember why you started the supper club to begin with: to spend more time sharing meals and conversation with your loved ones. A supper club is, above all, a space to come together, relax, and create connections with others.